What Are The Signs Someone is Cheating On You?
3 minute read | 02.24.2021 |
All relationships aren’t perfect and even though you may be deeply in love with your partner, there is always the slightest chance that they may be cheating on you. If you believe that this might be the case, be sure to learn the signs someone is cheating.
I’ve gathered up a couple for you, not in any specific order, and remember, just because your partner falls victim to one sign does not mean they are cheating. Be careful before you accuse your partner of cheating because it may hurt the relationship.
Signs Someone is Cheating On You
If your partner seems to be more attentive to you than usual, he or she may be cheating on you. Sometimes they will even start to buy you gifts. This is because they start to feel guilty about cheating on you. It will mostly happen around the time the affair starts and over time the amount of attention they give you will decrease. So, if you notice this starting to happen, you need to pay attention because after a while it will go away.
If you notice that your partner tries to pick fights with you a lot more they may be cheating on you, or if while you guys are fighting they say something about the relationship ending. They try to pick fights as an opportunity to leave and “find” someone else. Also they might often imply that the relationship might end because they know they have a plan b to fall back on in case the current relationship does end. Keep on your toes if you notice this happening.
Your partner may start to get moody with you or slowly stop interacting with you. These are both signs that someone is cheating on you. Your partner may act really depressed and quiet when hanging around you, but they may seem happy and excited when leaving you. If you notice this sort of behavior, start to keep an eye on your partner.
You may notice that your partner will start to criticize you, mostly things that they used to find attractive about you. Your partner will usually start this process by not complimenting you anymore and then start moving onto the more offensive remarks. They may also start to become more and more offended by comments that you make if you say anything about it.
If you notice that your partner starts closing doors in the house when you are around you may start to suspect cheating. Take the bathroom for example. Usually partners in long-term relationships will keep the door open when going to the bathroom when the other is nearby. A cheating partner will close the door to try to separate you two physically. This will also separate you psychologically.
If you try to do something nice for your partner they may try to deny it. This is because they feel guilty about cheating on you. According to them, they are cheating because you make their life miserable and you being nice to them is making them feel even more guilty about everything.
Other Signs You May Have A Cheating Partner:
- You may have a problem with a cheating partner if they rarely, or stop saying “I love you”.
- Your partner will not take any interest in the future of your relationship.
- You and your partner have less and less sex, and it is less intense when you do.
- Your partner wants to hang out with their friends more than they want to hang out with you.
- Your partner starts to pay less attention to your family.
- The sleeping pattern of your partner has changed.
You have to take into consideration that just because your partner shows one of these signs does not mean they are cheating. It’s when they start to show many of these signs is when you should be worried.